Timing is everything, and as always *cue sad trombone* I totally suck at timing. I really really do. It seems like I meet some really great guys at the most inopportune time. Hey, remember all of last year? Yeah. Timing fail. Great memories though. Now? I’m just kicking myself because apparently The Universe, or The Powers That Be, or God or whomever, whatever doesn’t want to let me sync enough with it to get a chance at some one great.
This last one, seems like such a great guy, really really caring, and we have a lot in common. Definitely seems like cool people. Could definitely see getting along with him, not to mention there are very few people that I really enjoy their company that much. Meeting someone I can actually talk to is phenomenal, plus someone that was cool with coffee in my kitchen instead of the pub is so few and far between these days it’s ridiculous.
Sounds great right? Ha. The Universe is mocking me. It really is. See this guy just got out of a long term relationship and his head is not in the right place, lots of feelings for his ex.
Now this is where I should apparently be angry or throw my fist in the air and declare that I am woman hear me roar and chase after him or some shit. While he definitely is worth the effort, I don’t want to.
First off, I know the feeling very well, I know how it is to be hung up on an ex and want with everything in my whole being to get back together with them. We’ve all been there. Or most of us have. I remember that all too well with N. It took me months to get over that… point being that I wouldn’t want someone chasing after me then. I didn’t. I tuned out anything and everything for some time and then attempted to rebound. I know the feeling, like I said.
Second off, I’ve spent my life chasing people. I have. I hate to admit it but I have. It’s taken me a long time to learn this but this quote is one of the ones I live by.
“You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.”
And another one of my favorites is:
“If I’m not worth the chase, that you’re not worth the fall”
What it comes down to, contrary to popular female belief, is that if you’re meant to jive with someone, it’ll happen. If something is supposed to develop then it will. There’s no point in trying to chase after someone who isn’t ready for something himself.
So there’s no worries. The Universe is just kicking me in the girly bits again. As always. Just teaching me that there are good guys out there. Teaching me to be patient and wait. Teaching me to keep my standards high and my morals higher. In the meantime though, it’s definitely let me meet plenty of cool people and meet some potentially cool friends. :)
All of this nonsense though, makes me want to shake the shit out of females. This girl has a catch and she just doesn’t realize it. It’s a shame that he’s hurting because of her, and I hope either she stops and lets him heal or realizes what she could potentially lose. Jesus woman! lol.